Ok....
Let me start
My server is on the LAN list despite my efforts (I am the only one who can see it also, i understand it should show up on the LAN list for me) I have tried port forwarding, changing the port on my server also port forwarding to that.
My Servers Name
Gamemonn's Server (it says [UPD] after it)
My servers address is 10.0.1.2:30721
I start my server in Terminal with this code
/Applications/Tremulous/tremded.ub +set dedicated 2 +exec server.cfg
I was told to change my servers port to enter this
/Applications/Tremulous/tremded.ub +set dedicated 2 +exec server.cfg +set net_port 30721
(yes i wanted 30721 instead of 30720)
I have Power PC Mac
I have high speed internet Comcast
I have The airport extreme
My IP adress is 10.0.1.140
My external IP address is 71.197.106.29.
I went here
http://portforward.com/english/routers/port_forwarding/Apple/AirPortExtreme/AirPortExtremeindex.htm to try and get help for my tremulous port forwarding no guide so i did the one for quake 3 (bad idea, didn't work)
I port forwarded to my servers address

My Question:
Do i have to start my server with the +set net_port thing at the end every time?
How can i tell if my server is dedicated i think i might some how be pure.
How do i get my Server on the master list so that other people can join?
Any advise?