Please, learn forums conventions before posting.
First, this should go in the server section or clan section, if any. [Edit: Kevlarman beat me to it, also, he lost the game.]
Second, look around in said server section, there is plenty of info on hosts.
Third, you are not likely to get this request fulfilled unless the host of a server joins your clan, which is more likely the higher you move up the clan ladder.
I am sorry for any family issues you may have had, I know how that is and how it destroys your online presence. I've experienced it multiple times, myself.
Good luck in your endeavor.