Ironically, as soon as i got a stable internet access at home, i pretty much stopped playing trem.
I played from my previous workplace a lot, staying late in the office, sometimes the cleaning lady waking me up in the morning.
I'm doing animated explainer videos with a new company now, mostly for US startups, and i'm with a girlfriend who beats me in Mortal Kombat (her lethal kitana and sony vs my old school jax scopr/subZ). We're mostly "hot-seat" playing rpgs nowadays like fallout and skyrim, she doing merchandising and outdoor horse riding, me exploring the scary dungeons, while she's spotting items on the floor that i wouldn't notice otherwise.
She did actually record my face while i was playing marauder. A video i cant unsee anymore so i stopped trem immediately. My online multiplayer(=more than one) experience is reduced(or upgraded) to chess, what is awesome btw.
Funny to see how i got into this game and the community back then, its romantic, little bit bitter and grotesque.
At the time i was working on both of my MA degrees in school (besides jobs) what were pretty much infulenced by trem and online gaming.
All the irc and forum debates helped me a lot to get better in english - so i can work now in an english only international environment.
Besides many other benefits i beleive.
cheers! :-)
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in addition: i created the nickname optimus for trem only ( and before the new gen transformers movies came out that i hate ), and i also made my email address of this name during that time, so in my new workplace everyone calls me optimus, opti, OP, or prime no matter how official the discussion is. hell, some people doesn't even know my real name :-)