well...to go on topic (yes i know a new place for me)
i would have to say hawre's
ive played about the same # of games on s11 as on hawres (somewhere around 10) and ive been abused by pol 0 times. idk why, but he doesnt seem to do anything to me or anyone else while i am there. On the other hand, every time i go to hawre's either solilo, hawre, or secunder come on eventually, and abuse and/or act like dicks.
Also, this one isnt really directed as much at the server as one senior admin there, but hes almost always on. trem.tjw.org. theres an admin there called mh1 hazard who somehow got admin and thinks everyone who picks up a md is aimbotting. he also seems to like to call random kick votes on people (seeing as how he cant figure out how to !kick properly, lol)
also, ill have to nominate my own server. im an asshole and mainly use it to just screw around with bugs with friends, so when someone else comes on and tries to play a real game i dont respond too well. (luckily its only up for like 30 mins every 3 weeks or so)