well, if i enable cl_allowdownload it will connect, but stop connecting when it tries to re-download base/vms-1.1.0.pk3 (which i already have there), then it stops that and tells me downloading is disabled on the server, and to disable cl_allowdownload for it to work.
when i do that, tremulous crashes after clicking join.....
fuck this is getting annoying.....and i was just playing like five minutes ago.