About the server lists.... ack NO!
I hate it in Enemy Territory and other games how the servers autmatically update. You try and click on a server or find one, and next thing you no its jumping around on the list as the pings+player numbers shift around. Its chaotic.
However, I would like to see it so highlighting a server will update its status automatically, like Americas Army. The servers there wont auto-update thier status unelss you highlight the server. THATS a good way of doing it.