Welcome to Tremulous and what passes for "community".
(This kind of post has been known to result in 6 pages of crap.)
Here are some failed/abandoned attempts.
There was a bug to use the right pronouns (iirc, did not work correctly) and add a menu item but nothing came of it since it is misleading without models, which are a very low priority. The cvar (/setu sex female) exists; it is ignored.
Of course, if you can make a good model, that might help to remedy the situation.
Offtopic-ness: I've not been in this fourm long enough to learn how to do the multi quotes so; I'll do this by numbers.
First off: Hah! "community"?
Secondly: Yeah I have nothing to say to that...
Third: I fail at doing anything on the comp, not to mention my computer is crap so i doubt it will run anything to allow me to do anything on anything, also even if i did manage to get it running; "me" making a model for something I barely understand would come out horribly... It would be just awful...
Fourth: /setu sex female .... I'll remeber that, though it may not help much. But I can see why this would be such a hard thing to do. (I can't even create said model in the first-place, so I don't really have the right to tell others to do it.) So all we can do is wait I guess...
Just awful...