The way you complain is what makes me decon you, I'm not sure about everyone else though.
Very well. That is exactly the problem with karma on most websites. People see the way the information is presented, rather than what is actually being said. If someone is able to post a thread saying 'I slept with your mother' in an apologetic, calm and friendly format, they get +'s for apologizing, because thats so nice. If someone posts a thread saying 'I slept with your mother' in a way that shows they regret it, because your mother was so hideous, they never should have slept with someone so fat in the first place, people are agnery, and give -'s. It almost always comes down to the way you present it. And the fact that nobody can see you smiling and presenting your words with vocal expressions, changes in facial expressions and sarcasm, it becomes very very difficult to correctly portray what you're saying.
Most of the time, if I said what I typed out loud, people would laugh, or understand my opinion. Instead, in their head, I am being an angry little kid, complaining about everything.
Karma's a bitch, and I think we should get rid of it.
However, it is a great generator for threads such as these.