I probably shouldn't revive this thread, but there seems to be some misconceptions on girls gaming. When I bring my server up, it is usually all girls that play on it. I have a daughter that likes to game with her friends. There are 6-8 of them that play. It used to be Quake3 and UT2004, but they seem to enjoy Tremluous more these days as being aliens is more to their liking than toting guns. It used to be an occasional LAN party, but slowly has become more and more internet play.
They don't like playing with foul-mouthed, rude little jerks which is for the most part what is found on public servers today. That is why they play on their own server. It has nothing to do with racism, or being sexist. It has everything to do with common decency and a little maturity which is really lacking in this game community.
This is not meant to be a rant, but a bit of an explanation why you don't see too many girls gaming on your servers. Some girls like FPS, just not the players. (Xonya and a few others may have different opinions, but...)
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