
Anyone who gains a heightened sense of importance any form of violence and derives fun from that sense is a complete asshole. This is because they invite gore into their lives on a daily basis and by definition, slowly destroy their sense of right and wrong.
This paragraph is chock-full of inaccurate generalisations. You state that anyone who wants to see gore in a game wants it so that they feel important, you call these people assholes, and you assume that this alone destroys their sense of right and wrong.
It's a game guy.
Then you completely funlily all the rest of your arguments by stressing that this is a game, not reality, obviously implying that games should not be taken seriously.
Tremulous is not an alternate reality, it is not even a short story; you are not a space marine or an alien, you are some guy pecking at a keyboard and mouse playing a silly game. The point where all games lose what it is to be a game is when they try to be more than just a game.
Demonstrates serious lack of imagination. Following this logic, one could say that you can't become the character of a fiction book, you're just a guy reading paper. That a movie is not a story, it's just a series of frames strung together. Personally, I think not being able to imagine a reality that you are not experiencing is more tragic than wanting blood effects in games.
Also, no game I know of tries to be more than a game. Lots of them try to get as close to reality as possible, but there's a big difference between that and trying to be more. Also, what say you of flight simulators?
All in all, I find the whole "violence in media" is BS. The only people who are negatively affected by such violence are those who are stupid/manipulable, or those with mental deficiencies. Anyone intelligent can tell the difference between pixel blood and real blood. I've been playing gory FPS games since I was around 8 (Duke Nukem 3d), but I still cringe at the thought of intense bleeding, or at shooting at something that's alive. But as far as you're concerned, OMG I'M GONNA GO JOIN THE ARMY BECAUSE VIDEO GAMES HAVE MADE ME INTO A COLD KILLER WHO ENJOYS ENDING HUMAN LIFE, AND WATCHING PEOPLE BLEED INTENSELY.
Wait, nvm. Just remembered that earlier you stressed how games are so far from reality that you can't possibly be immersed in them. And so, the entire "gore" argument blossoms into a beautiful flower of irony.