Hey, I'm new to these forums, and this is my first post ever. I haven't been playing Tremulous for very long, but I've been playing long enough to know most of the game's mechanics and such.
I was reading your suggestion list and one of your suggestions had something to do with turning ff off. Now that's funny because I thought that setting was default to off as the server I play on has no ff, and let me tell you now, the teams are VERY balanced. I mean almost 50-50 win/losses. Maybe its slightly in the aliens favor, but as posted earlier, its due to the players themselves, not the weapons, aliens, etc. By the looks of these forums, I'm about the only new member who hasn't got a problem with the game. So the only suggestion I can agree with you on is the friendly fire, and that's all.
EDIT: Also on the server I play on, the game is limited to a maximum of 16 players. This is a perfect amount of people IMO as I tend to find that if theres lower than 8 people, the humans win more as the dretches have a harder time evolving, and that if theres higher than 16 people, the aliens win more as the aliens camp near the human base and kill n00b's that come out of the base then rack up evo points, and they all evolve into tyrants and gang-rape the human base.