How can you train your brain so you can bend a spoon........ with your mind!!! 
Easy. The mind has this remarkable ability to cause things to happen. Whether it be making a finger press a button or making a foot kick a vending machine when pressing the button didn't work.
Simply focus your mind on making your body move into the kitchen. Tell one hand to take a spoon and another hand to light the stove. Now, by sheer force of will, have your hands bring the spoon to the flame and wait.
After peeling the spoon off the burned hand with your non-burned hand, you should then be able to check with both hands (still using those mind powers) whether it will bend yet. If not, repeat until so.
By concentration, you can divert insane amounts of blood into your hand.
The heat given off will soften the metal and make it flop over.
Works better with some metals & alloys than others.
That's completely right! (apart from everything you just said)
Is it a true fact that on a level of how complex languages are, humpback whales have a more complex language than us? As in, language as a whole. All languages are related by certain bases, things that we have to make possible, otherwise there would be languages we could never use fully.
It doesn't seem so. Though whales do have the larget brain in the animal kingdom, this doesn't mean they're also the cleverest. Large brain size could just be the result of having alot of muscle to control. The structure of their brains are also more primitive (though not necessarily less effective).
Dolphins have shown some of the best communication skillz of the sea-mammals. They've been able to understand the importance of order in a sentence (e.g. knowing when to do what task in the order "swim through hoop then take box then eat fish). You wouldn't call this 'more complex' than our language, (though they had to learn sign language before communication was possible which perhaps limited their capability). If dolphins aren't more clever talkers than us, I doubt whales are.