Oblivion, please don't try to administrate any kind of server w/o any form of basic knowledge.
You coming here to ask questions not even loosely related to tremulous makes you really look like a retard that has no clue where he could get support for the most basic tools of the trade.
Anyways...
What most ppl use on windows to SSH is "putty", but w/o prior access to the target, even that will not help you. Read up on the link Rocinante gave you as to why.