wtf? i got no game.qvm and i can host the server.
where the heck is the file located?
I'll help. I'm not going to make any assumptions with this post, so I won't even assume you know what the ~ means in terms of file location.
From the top:
Go to your hard drive, then to the Users folder. In that, there will be an icon shaped like a house which has your username next to it. In this folder, there's a 'Library' folder. In there, a folder called 'Application Support'. And, finally, in that folder is one called 'Tremulous'.
In there should be the 'fs-games' or server mod names for every server you've been to. I'm assuming you haven't changed your fs_game from the default, so go to the 'base' folder. In there are all your binds, some map stuff and several important server files: admin.dat and server.cfg, as well as the 'vm' folder. In the 'vm' folder is 'game.qvm', the Quake Virtual Machine folder which powers your server.
It is this folder which everyone is telling you to replace. The game.qvm file.
If you are computer literate, this is what you should do:
Navigate to ~/Library/Application\ Support/Tremulous/base/vm. Replace 'game.qvm' with the one included in your mod.