I dis-like the fact that some members in these forums uses the forums as a gateway for stupid, unproductive stuff. Spam and trolls are one thing, but to use the forums to find your 'girlfriend' is just plain dumb. I highly suggest shadowlord that you refrain from posting such crap in the forums, and learn how to spell like a normal human being. There is a spell-check function available, so make use of it.
The moderators aren't giant dickwads as everybody generally assumes, so I assume they won't ban you for these posts and they'll give you a few chances to prove yourself. Don't post such crap next time, or you'll be on the fast-track to being restricted (or more likely banned) here.