So, I've seen a whole load of topics about what Tremulous needs to do to stay alive. I'm just about sick of suggestions =/
Everyone seems to blame development, server operators, and even forum administrators. I'm going to steal and modify a famous line that I believe fits quite nicely: Ask not what Tremulous development can do for us, ask what we can do for Tremulous Development.
Step one is play the game. Play it often, and encourage others to do the same. Not enough good players out there? Guess who can change that: you. If you believe the skilled players are unfriendly, I might have to agree with you, but that doesn't mean you can't become the exception to the rule. If you think you are kept from getting better because of the skilled players not helping, get over it and stop making excuses. Noone helped me become ready to join a clan like Zubs, but rather, I made myself ready, and I promise it isn't that hard.
The greatest gift you can give to trem, other than being a friendly high-level player, is to actually make things. Find out what you're good at. Maybe you can make models, or maps, or even qvms.
Keep the community in mind when you mod anything. There are tons of huge, beautiful maps out there that nobody plays. Try and make your maps playable before they are presentable. A few more maps as balanced as ATCS could do worlds of good for the game. Same for modding. It's much easier (and more fun) as a modder to create wild settings than it is to implement new, balanced features, but the community will, if anything, suffer from dumbass mods.
Stick it out. Eventually, whether we like it or not, Tremulous will be reduced to a few hardcore players who refuse to give it up. Be one of those people. If we have 200 diehards with us we can still have decent games and even clan matches. With 50 of us the chances for diversity in gameplay narrows.
Don't be quiet. If you think the direction 1.2 or anything else is going is shit, tell them so...just maybe not in that way. Constructive criticism can help a modder know what people want and need, rather than just implementing features for the sake of it. Remember when you yourself become the developer to keep an open mind. If you and your development team are the only people who are very optimistic about your mod, chances are the playerbase isn't digging it. Run some servers, and invite some friends. If you have a good project, I will go as far as getting it populated (if only for a couple weeks or so) for you. If people are constantly showing up, you know you have done something worthwhile for the Trem community.
Above all, thank the people who ARE doing great things for us. TJW, Lakitu7, K-otic/Exclamation/Volt, Superpie, Your Face, Supertanker, Khalsa - just to name a few - deserve thanks and appreciation. If you post a thank you in the topic for whatever they have done, they will be motivated to do even more for us.
Have fun, play the game, be your best and kindest, and you will help the game. Tremulous has no dreams of being on the cover of EGM, it's a medium-sized mod and it's going well. All we have to do is maintain it, and it will live on for years to come.
Thanks for reading <3